Find out if you're on the Tea App & AWDTSG group — and exactly what is said.
There are private online groups where women compare notes on men they date. We check whether you are in them — before it can impact your reputation, relationships, and peace of mind.
Shield Date gives you a clear, private way to stay informed.
We carry out careful, manual searches across the Tea App and "Are We Dating The Same Guy" (AWDTSG) Facebook groups, where women share dating experiences — and deliver a straightforward report so you know exactly where you stand.
No guesswork. No drama. Just clarity.
Everyone can see it except you.
There's no alert, no notification, nobody forwarding it on. It takes a person going through it by hand — that's what you're paying for.
Tell us who to look for
Your name, your city, photo if you have one, and extra details. Takes about 2 minutes.
2 minutesWe do the looking
A real person works through the Tea App and the AWDTSG Facebook groups by hand, post by post. No script, no shortcuts.
Human searchYou know either way
Posted about or not, you get a documented answer with screenshots/video recordings within 24 hours.
Within 24 hoursWhy men book a scan
Most men who book a scan are responding to a pattern, not one bad night. If some of these feel familiar, you're not imagining it.
Matches that go cold
Conversations that stop after a message or two. No argument, no reason, nothing you can point to.
Second dates that quietly don't happen
"Something came up" — from someone who seemed genuinely interested the first time round.
Someone brought up Tea
A friend, a coworker or a match mentions they "heard something" about you, and won't say what or from whom.
A messy breakup within the last year
Recent breakup stories are the most common type of Tea post. Most are written in the first six months after the split.
Any one of these on its own means nothing. Two or three together is usually why men book a scan.
Run my private scanSee what the Tea App and AWDTSG groups say about you.
One careful, manual search across the Tea App and AWDTSG Facebook groups — with your verified report delivered within 24 hours.
One-Time Scan
Check if you are posted, get your scan and report now
No subscription — pay once
- Find out if you're on the Tea App
- "Are We Dating the Same Guy" group search
- Searched by a person, not a script
- Screenshots & screen recordings as proof
- Proof of where we looked, not just what we found
- A clear answer either way — found or not found
- A comprehensive guide to each platform's removal process
- Reported within 24 hours, or your money back
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Real people. Real answers.
Some found something. Some found nothing. All of them stopped guessing.
"I'd heard a post about me existed but had no way to check. It did — three of them. Having the screenshots meant I could actually deal with it instead of guessing."
"Came back clean across every group they searched. Fifty bucks to stop turning it over in my head at 2am was a bargain."
"The report had dated screen recordings, not just screenshots. No arguing about what was said or when it was posted."
"Nothing found — and they showed me exactly where they'd looked. That's what I was paying for, not just the answer."
"Submitted it late one night and had the full report before lunch the next day. No chasing, no back and forth."
"Discreet the whole way through. No account to set up, nothing traceable back to me. Exactly what I wanted."
"Three sleepless days of wondering, answered in 2 hours. I should have just asked sooner."
Frequently Asked Questions
We search the private groups and apps where women discuss men they've dated — mainly the Tea App and "Are We Dating the Same Guy" Facebook groups — and tell you whether your name comes up, with screenshots and screen recordings as proof.
Men who want to know whether they've been posted online. Most of our clients are dating actively, have heard these groups exist, and have no way to look inside them.
None of this is on Google. These are private Facebook groups and a women-only app — the content isn't public, it isn't indexed, and getting in as a man is extremely difficult. That's the whole reason the service exists.
$49, once. No subscription, no recurring charges, no upsells.
Charges appear as SHIELD DATE. Nothing on your statement describes what the service is or what was searched.
Most reports go out within 4 hours of your request, and never later than 24 hours.
Your first name, last initial, your age, your city, an email, phone number (optional), and a photo (optional). Posts in these groups often use a first name, age, city and pictures rather than a full name, so a photo is a more reliable way to match a post to you.
Screenshots and screen recordings of the search itself, plus any post mentioning you — dated, so there's no ambiguity about what was said or when.
You still get the full report, showing where we searched and confirming you're clear. For a lot of clients, that's the outcome they were paying for.
The Tea App and your local "Are We Dating the Same Guy" Facebook group. These groups shift constantly — renamed, split, archived or locked down without notice. If yours isn't reachable when we search, we tell you, run the Tea App search alone, and refund $20 automatically.
No. We don't contact the groups, the people who posted, or anyone else, and nothing in our process identifies you as having requested a scan. It is entirely confidential, and your details are deleted as soon as your report is delivered.
You should be skeptical of anyone who promises post removals. We tell you what's there, give you the evidence, and include a step-by-step guide to the reporting and removal routes the Tea App and Facebook actually offer. You carry those steps out yourself. We can't guarantee the outcome, but there's a good chance they'll work. We don't contact posters, argue with moderators, or attempt removals on your behalf.
Two cases. If we're late past 24 hours, you get the full $49 back. If we can't reach the AWDTSG group covering your region, we run the Tea App search on its own and refund $20 automatically. Finding nothing isn't a refund case — you still get the screenshots and recordings of every place we looked, which is what proves you're clear.
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